How to talk to your music teacher when practice feels pointless

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Written By Erica Bramham

How to deal with boring, pointless or difficult homework in your music practice

Includes a guided meditation for musicians and music students

It’s a frustrating feeling: you’re trying to be a good student, but the practice tasks you’re given feel boring, confusing, or disconnected from what you want to play.

In today’s video, we look at both sides of this experience. You’ll hear some thoughts on how to stay open to your teacher’s process, and how to speak up when your goals have changed or you’re not connecting with the material.

You’ll also get a guided meditation at the end to help you reconnect with your sense of purpose and curiosity as a student.

 

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