How to stay motivated when teaching yourself music

Staying consistent as a self-taught musician or adult learner

Includes a guided meditation for musicians and music students

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When we are learning music, especially if we are teaching ourselves, we often just want someone to hand us a method book and tell us exactly what to practice. And when that doesn’t happen, it’s easy to spiral into frustration or give up on the day entirely.

In today’s video, I talk about those moments and how we can step into the role of our own practice parent, without waiting for external permission or the perfect plan. Because sometimes the hardest part is just starting.

At the end, there’s a guided meditation to help you ease into your next practice session with more calm and clarity.

 

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